Yesterday Last week A few days ago This time two weeks ago At the beginning of last month I found myself in a little café near Rudolfsplatz with a mug of creamy hot chocolate, catching up with a friend I hadn’t seen since a Silbermond concert at the Goethe Institut back in 2012 (and in the way that things go, it’s only now that I’m getting round to finishing what I wanted to say about it). He’d invited me there the day before, and with a day off from my theatre work I decided to check it out. Called Grad 20, it was just the sort of place that I’d happily spend an afternoon in with a book or with friends, and gave me the impression that it was a sort of hidden treasure of Cologne, since it lies unobtrusively along a row of restaurants, supermarkets and stores which are certainly more well-known than this independent café.
The singer was a girl and her guitar, a London dweller who busks in Underground stations and plays in bars at events around Europe. Charlotte Campbell’s her name, and during her one hour/90 minute slot she sang a few covers as well as her own songs (and if anyone’s interested, her YouTube Channel is https://www.youtube.com/user/CCampbellMusic). The set-up of a mic and an amp suited the unassuming venue, and it made for a very lovely couple of hours on a cold November evening.
When asked how she came about this tiny establishment in Cologne, she replied, “I just emailed them, and they said yes.” I don’t quite know what I was expecting, but I was surprised at the simplicity. Perhaps it was because I’ve been used to the masses of red tape in my own amateur theatre life, or having the onslaught of German/English admin when moving out here. Either way I had to admire the “decide to do it and just do it” attitude she has. Having already played in Greece earlier this year, her talent is certainly allowing her to explore beyond London. In the audience this time round there were two girls who had seen her in Berlin and came to support her again in Cologne, which just goes to show that how music can connect people even when there is a language barrier.
With it being such a small venue, I ended up having a little chat with Charlotte in her breaks and afterwards. We talked a little about our lives and I explained that I was on my year abroad and working in a theatre, to which she responded, “[for my age], you’ve achieved so much.” Being one of about 180 students in my uni alone who are spending their third year abroad, I didn’t really consider my big move anything spectacular, so I complimented her back with congratulations on her own successes, to which she smiled and played them down. What struck me then was that our accomplishments were considered more highly by the other person than by ourselves (if that makes any sense at all). Our modesty about our achievements made us forget the fact that they were achievements at all (noteworthy, yes, but not achievements), simply because we viewed them as just another part of our day-to-day lives.
My own realisation of my progress came whilst trying to find a new job, as well as struggling to complete my Stundenzettel for the past 4 months (scary moment where you know exactly how many injuries you’ve sustained from work- 13 bruises and 3 cuts- but not how many hours you’ve worked…). The thought of joining a new theatre made me realise just how much I love my work and colleagues in Cologne and it was the little things that went by unnoticed, such as being able to programme the lighting desk in accordance to the performer’s wishes in German, that contributed to me feeling like part of the theatre family.
The older we get, the higher expectations we have for what we would call a success- after all, adults can’t get a Well Done Certificate for paying attention in class for the week. It can be incredibly easy overlook the “smaller” achievements in our lives as we push forward, blinkered, to the next task (students remain fairly good at spotting and rewarding themselves, even if it’s 2 hours’ extra sleep for completing an essay before a deadline. Though to be fair, essays are rarely considered a small feat for their writer…), and actually, it doesn’t hurt to recognise them a little more. Not all accomplishments need a round of applause as you walk to the front of the hall in your school uniform- they can be the completed tasks of the day that, whilst not enough for a full-on party, certainly deserve a smile or two. So, in true primary school rewards assembly style, I shall end this post with Heather Small…
What have you done today to make you feel proud?